My Win Against Shame Guilt
|I am grateful to know how shame guilt are used to make us victims.|
|I had to be in a court trial to prosecute a person who assaulted me. It appeared an easy win since I recorded the incident, my injuries, and I didn’t instigate his attack.|
However, the defense attorney tried to discredit me and my story by using shame guilt to convince me the assault happened differently.
Once the onslaught of shaming and guilting happened, I realized that the attorney ONLY had shame guilt tactics to win.
I WON! I confidently refused to accept the defending attorney’s use of shame guilt statements against me.